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“Males are born. Men are built. And Mickey Eckles knows how to build men.”
—Stephen Mansfield, PhD, New York Times Bestselling Author
Not Your Average Guy charts a bold, biblical path forward in a world confused about masculinity. With honesty, grit, and grace, Mickey Eckles calls men to reject passivity, confront compromise, and pursue godly manhood.
These ten choices are practical, Scripture-based, and forged through over thirty years of real-life ministry with men from all walks of life.
If you’re spiritually stuck, searching for direction, or tired of pretending, this book will meet you where you are and call you higher.
This isn’t a lecture. It’s a roadmap to strength, purpose, and freedom.
“Males are born. Men are built. And Mickey Eckles knows how to build men. In this wise and powerful book, Mickey brings his experience as a pastor and as a man’s man into the lives of men hungry to be more—for God, for their families, and for their generation. Get this book. Read it. Live it. Be changed.”
—Stephen Mansfield, PhD
New York Times Bestselling Author
“I’ve had the privilege of walking alongside the author for over 25 years, and I can tell you—he lives what he writes. Not Your Average Guy is more than a book; it’s a road map for men who want to rise above mediocrity and lead with character, courage, and conviction. It’s a must-read not only for men, but for anyone who loves, supports, and prays for the men in their lives.”
— Carl A. Toti
Senior Pastor and Leadership Coach
“Intriguing and inspiring! In the midst of today’s growing epidemic of fatherlessness, this book, by my friend and pastor Mickey Eckles, provides both biblical truth and practical guidance for restoring biblical manhood. I highly recommend it to every man—and to anyone who cares about the future of men.”
—Rev. Bob Fu, PhD
Founder and President of ChinaAid
“Authentic. Intentional. Spirit-led. Three values that describe both the author and the path he prescribes toward biblical manhood. Mickey gets real about the real stuff men face every day. Every man tired of his well-worn path will find a new way through the biblical principles laid out in this book.”
—Daniel Stephens
Lead Pastor and North American
Director of Every Nation Churches
“This exceptional resource challenges men to become all God calls them to be. It presents Bible based truths in a way that’s clear, practical, and easy to apply. The writing is strong and accessible, and the discussion guide makes it ideal for group and personal use. This is a life-changing book.”
—David Haladay
Retired Bible Teacher
“This book is a must-read for every man. It says so much with such simplicity. I’ll be getting copies for my sons and grandsons.”
—Doc Proctor
Retired Homicide Detective,
Men’s Ministry Leader, and Deacon
“Mickey Eckles writes with the clarity, honesty, and depth men need right now. This book moves beyond stereotypes and cultural confusion, calling men into a clear, biblical vision of manhood. It’s practical, relatable, and rooted in real-life transformation. Every man—and every church—needs this message.”
—Cody Duff
Discipleship Pastor
“After reading this book, I took a long look in the mirror—my view of manhood did a complete 180. I had it all wrong. I realized I feared man more than I feared God, constantly comparing myself to others. This book challenged me to take action, and the results will draw others closer to God.”
—Kenny Copeland
Retired Grocer
“Mickey delivers essential truth in a practical and powerful way. This book speaks directly to the everyday man, offering real-time wisdom for real-life situations. Whether you’re a husband, father, brother, or son, the content in these pages will help you grow into the man God designed you to be.”
—Luke Ethridge
Men’s and Jail Ministry Leader
“This book is a roadmap to biblical manhood. In a time when manhood is constantly deteriorating, Mickey, through experience and God’s design, shows us what true masculinity looks like.”
—Randy Velarde
16-Year Major League Baseball Veteran
“Mickey Eckles, you’ve captured the essence of real biblical manhood. Men of faith are a force to be reckoned with in the Kingdom! The truths in these pages are timely, well-presented, and deeply needed—a life changer. Great work!”
—Rob Winkler
PRWink Strategies and Twice Chosen Ministries
“This book is a powerful tool for discovering what it truly means to be a man of God. The ten biblical principles are clear and easy to read—perfect for any man looking to take next steps in his faith. Each chapter offered something that spoke directly to the season I’m in. I especially appreciated the personal stories and real-life solutions. I’m impressed and excited to use this in our men’s ministry. I highly recommend it.”
—Cole Bradford
Business Owner and Men’s Ministry Leader
“After reading the introduction, I knew this book was for me and many others like me. My dad passed away when I was three. My stepfather was abusive and unfaithful, and no one ever showed me what a godly man looked like. By God’s grace, I’ve tried to raise my sons to be men of God—but it hasn’t been easy. I know I’m not alone. This book is a powerful tool to help men discover who they are in Christ and become spiritual leaders. Thank you for a masterful work.”
—Jeffrey LaCasse
Disabled Veteran and Retired Railroad Worker
“This book is thought-provoking and challenging, offering valuable insight for men at any stage of their spiritual journey. The topics are timely, relevant, and deeply relatable. It’s an ideal resource for men’s small groups or personal growth. The chapter on being led by the Holy Spirit especially challenged me to walk with greater boldness in my personal and spiritual life.”
—Isaias Miranda
Higher Education Administrator
